Category: Pre & Post-Wedding Fun

Married in Montana: Rehearsal Stresstravaganza

And now, back to your regularly scheduled guest-photo recap. Pardon me if I pack a LOT of action into this post – the best way to replicate how I felt the day before our wedding is to completely overwhelm you with details.

Last you saw us, we were stuck bickering in a 2-man tent. Now, it was time to REALLY get ready to get hitched… and THIS is the location for which we were headed:


(Our ceremony site in Polebridge)

Thursday before the wedding was a whirlwind: driving back from Many Glacier to West Glacier, welcoming guests, having dinner with twenty of Justin’s extended family, frantically trying to press my dress, and making sure everyone was prepared for tomorrow’s rehearsal. It all went by in a panicked blur. And despite the welcome packets we’d put together that the hotel staff was gleefully handing out to our guests, no one seemed to know what was going on! RAAGH!

But there was no time to worry; only time to ride the wave. So that’s what I did, existing in a state of mock-serenity that carried me through Thursday evening and into Friday morning. I woke up drained, exhausted and feeling completely unprepared to get married in just over 24 hours.

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Married in Montana: Chaos at Cracker Lake

In this edition of “Married in Montana,” I’ll take you deep into the Glacier backcountry on our pre-wedding, 2-night, 3-day trip to Cracker Lake. The trip was fraught with action, adventure, and… ah, mostly angst … and a lot of rain. Plus, there was some extremely gorgeous scenery:

But the real reason I’m writing about this trip isn’t just to share glorious photos; it’s to tell you about “the fight“.

Now, a lot of people will tell you that wedding planning is more than enough to bring out the worst in the most loving of couples. You’d be hard pressed, however, to find a more peaceable pair than the Justin and I. We certainly have our differences of opinion, and every so often find ourselves in a disagreement, but we rarely, if ever, have what I would call a fight. Even though our wedding planning, when I was sweating bullets and he was confusedly aloof, neither of us once lost our temper.

But three nights before our wedding, we were trapped in a tent at Cracker Lake duking out some serious issues and I found myself wondering, quite spitefully, if either of us knew what the hell we were doing.

But let’s back it up a bit so we can start at the proper beginning of this story…

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Road Trip: Stops Along the Way

While we hope that everyone who is coming to the wedding has the goal of seeing Glacier, we also know that some of you would like to make the most of your trip and see some things along the way.

The drive from Seattle to the Columbia Gorge can be quite pretty, especially in the early morning or late evening. The road from Portland along the river is also beautiful. There are some scenic overlooks along the Gorge and one in particular in Washington where I-90 crosses the Columbia that is worth a stop. Before the river, there is a burger place in Vantage, Washington called Blustery’s that is a good stop for lunch.

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Transportation Foul: NO FREE SHUTTLE

In a stunning display of stupidity, I did not check with the Park Service to see when Glacier’s free hiker shuttles stop running for the season. It turns out that the last day to use the shuttle service is LABOR DAY. I should have figured.

I am so, so sorry about this. What a major party foul. :(

If you were planning on using the free hiker shuttle as a mode of transportation around the park, please consider carpooling with friends and family at the wedding, or renting a car from the Kalispell Airport and Amtrak station.

The classic red jammer tours will still be running while you are in the Park, but they are a paid, narrated tour, not a method of transport for hikers.

Again, our apologies. We were really looking forward to this service being available for our guests.

NOTE: The free hiker shuttle is separate from the wedding shuttle. We are still having a shuttle from Park lodging to and from Polebridge for the wedding & reception.

Feeling down

Sad Bride by Heba A. on flickr

I feel like complaining. So I’m going to.

I don’t know what’s causing it exactly, but I’m feeling a bit dejected about wedding planning right now. It might be that there’s not much for me to do at this point, but I suspect it’s more a matter of money than anything else.

To counter my last post, the more deeper we get into planning, the more hidden costs we encounter. These aren’t costs we budgeted for, they’re costs that just sort of creep up on us over time.

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A Guide to Hiking, Backpacking, & Climbing in Glacier

In this post I’ll try to provide resources for anyone interested in hiking, climbing, or backpacking in Glacier National Park before or after our wedding. We are thinking about leading a few hikes and/or climbs or backpacking, but we’re not sure what time will allow or how many people we will be able to assist.

The best way to prepare is not to rely on us but to educate yourself. So, arm yourselves with knowledge and prepare to enter the wilderness!

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Glacier National Park: An Introduction

It would be an understatement to say that Glacier National Park is a special place for Justin and I. It’s not just the place where we got engaged, it’s the place where we got to know each other, spending weeks of precious time together over the last eight summers of our relationship. For Justin, Glacier has been a place to spend time with his dad and with his friends as he grew up. For me, it’s been a place to escape to, where I can be free of the world to concentrate on what really matters.

By inviting all of you, our friends an family, to join us in the park, we hope to share some of its significance. We realize that it won’t mean the same things to you, and for some it might be “just another” National Park to check off the list. But even for the seasoned traveler, Glacier holds an unparalleled and different kind of beauty.

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Getting Around in Glacier

A few people consider our wedding too remote. While it is correct that Polebridge is near the Canadian border and down a dirt road, it still isn’t any harder to get to than your average wedding.

Glacier National Park is accessible by Kalispell International Airport. There is a direct flight from Seattle… and from many other major airports. If no direct flight is available, there is typically only one transfer– the same that a traveler might expect going cross-country to any other destination.

From the airport, Glacier National Park, including the Apgar and Lake McDonald lodges, is only 30-45 minutes away. This is no farther than anyone would expect to travel from any major airport to their destination– even the Seattle airport is 20 minutes from downtown and 30 minutes from the East Side. Rental cars and shuttles are available at the airport.

The adventurous traveler can even take an Amtrak train directly to the West entrance of Glacier National Park. [Note: "Visitors arriving by train in West Glacier may call Glacier Park Inc., to schedule and reserve pick up and transportation to the park for a fee. Glacier Park Inc. uses white Dodge 15-seat passenger vans for this service. Please contact Glacier Park Inc. at (406) 892-2525."]

The wedding is about 1/2 hour from lodging, albeit down a dirt road much of the way. But it’s a dirt road without traffic or stoplights! Both the ceremony and reception are in the same location, with no travel required in-between. Hurrah!

Once you’re in the park, it’s easy to get around even without a car. Glacier National Park provides a free shuttle between major destinations in the park such as Apgar, Lake McDonald Lodge, Logan Pass, and St. Mary. Once you pay your normal entrance fee you are authorized free and unlimited access to the shuttle. The “Lake McDonald Valley” shuttle follows this route throughout the park:

* Apgar Transit Center
* Sprague Creek Campground
* Lake McDonald Lodge
* Avalanche Creek
* The Loop
* Logan Pass
(return in reverse order)

Riders can expect approximately 1.5 – 2 hours between Apgar Transit Center and Logan Pass . It’s about 1 hour by car (traffic and construction permitting) but the shuttle has its benefits. From the GNP shuttle website:

There are almost as many reasons to ride the shuttle as visitors in the park. One of the biggest reasons is that it does not cost extra beyond your normal entrance fee. You should ride the shuttle if it can enhance your experience in Glacier, by either by leaving the driving to a professional, or to better support your sightseeing, backpacking, day hiking, or other Glacier experience. You can also ride the shuttle and know that you are making a measurable contribution to reducing atmospheric emissions in this pristine environment, reducing the impact on global climate change. Finally, you might just save a few dollars better invested on a souvenir from your adventure in Glacier by parking your car and riding the shuttle.

The first shuttle will leave at about 7:15 am from the transit centers and the last shuttles will leave Logan Pass at around 9:30pm to allow full advantage of long summer days in Glacier. Detailed schedules will be available at the Apgar Transit Center, Apgar Visitor Center, St. Mary Visitor Center, in the Glacier Explorer, the Waterton-Glacier Guide, and other park publications and hand outs. The schedule will also be posted at the Transit Centers.

The Lake McDonald Valley shuttles will run every 15 minutes during the day. Other shuttles run every 30 minutes.

What other wedding destinations have you visited where you can expect free transportation? So, you see, it isn’t any more difficult to get to, from, and around Glacier than any major metropolitan area in the states. The flight might be a bit longer and you’ll definitely feel the relaxation of being in America’s “Last Best Place,” but it isn’t as far as you might think.

Lodging details

Some eager guests have already asked us where they should make reservations for the wedding. Lake McDonald Lodge is the most convenient option and will likely be where the majority of the wedding guests and wedding party stay. It is only 1/2 mile from the Speyer cabin in Glacier National Park, and about 1/2 hour from the wedding site. We will probably provide shuttles to and from Lake McDonald Lodge to and from the wedding and reception for guests who don’t want to drive so they can drink, guests who don’t feel comfortable driving on an unmaintained road, or guests who are traveling without a car. Guests who choose to stay at other locations may not be able to take advantage of the shuttle.

We recommend considering staying longer than the weekend of the 6th. Labor Day is Monday, September 1. Why not consider leaving on the weekend before and making your stay in Glacier a week-long vacation? We will be hosting some group events (such as hiking and rafting) in the week before the wedding.

There are many, many locations to stay in and around Glacier National Park. I’ve listed only a few of the most convenient below. If you have other ideas or require different accommodation, please comment here and we will be happy to give you our feedback. As soon as you are sure that you are going to be coming to the wedding, check with the location of your choice and ask about room availability. Space will probably be wide open until the beginning of 2008, then you might start to see more limited availability. Calling the venue direct will generally mean lower rates and more flexibility about date changes and rebooking.

Lodging in Glacier National Park

Lodging outside Glacier National Park